Christian Advice on Picking Up Women. This is the most amazing video I’ve ever seen. I cherish every second of this. 

‘Hey. Those boots you’re wearing - it looks like you’re in a motorcycle gang. Don’t get me wrong, those boots are cute, but tell the truth - are you in a gang?’ 

Ok. Now, more important than what I’m saying is what I’m sub-communicating about myself through what I’m saying. When I come up and I tease a girl about her boots, what I’m doing is I’m setting this frame that I’m the big brother, she’s the little sister I’m there to tease her. I’m there to bring fun into her day. The girl will read that, sub-com, and she’ll realize, ‘ok, it’s time to have fun!’ The other thing I’m doing is I’m communicating to her that I dont take this too seriously; you know, I’m chill, relaxed and I’m there to have fun. If she wants to have fun, then great, if not, that’s ok too.

Alright. Second type of opener it is the Opinion Opener. Opinion Opener’s just that: you just ask the girl an opinion about something. Now, here’s the key with an Opinion Opener: you can easily come off like a guy that is taking a survey. So once again, the thing you wanna do here is you just wanna make it seem relaxed and in the moment. An example of an Opinion Opener is:’Hey. Do girls like guys with tattoos? I notice more and more Christians are getting tattoos - do girls even like that?’

(found on christiannightmares)